Suffer

We suffer more often in imagination than in reality - Seneca

Unlearning

Perfecting oneself is as much unlearning as it is learning. Edsger Dijkstra

Decision making

Easy choices, hard life. Hard choices, easy life. - Jerzy Gregorek

The thing

You have to give up the thing you want most in the world, because that's the thing that will destroy you - Bent (movie)

Each other

Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing, there is a field. I’ll meet you there. When the soul lies down in that grass, the world is too full to talk about. Ideas, language, even the phrase "each other" doesn’t make any sense. -Rumi